[FENG SHUI FRIDAY] 8 tips to enhance or attract love!

1.  Clear the Clutter
2.  Design in pairs
3.  Activate with the right colours
4. Add Romantic Symbols
5.  Remove Relationship blockers
6.  Use Affirmations and Intention
7.  Freshen up the energy
8.  Feng Shui Love Ritual

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Chapters

• 0:06 Enhancing Relationships With Feng Shui
• 10:42 Improving Relationships Through Bedroom Feng Shui

Transcript

Speaker 1: 0:06

I'm so glad that you're here. You are listening to what the fuck did she just say with your host? That's me, sandra Priestly. I'm all about living our best life and finding our zone of brilliance and then removing the resistance so that we can go all in. I say random, crazy shit, which is why I called this podcast the way that I did, and I really hate long drawn out intros, so let's fucking go. Well, it's Feng Shui Friday again, but it's also Valentine's day, so happy Shwe Friday again, but it's also Valentine's Day, so happy Valentine's Day.

Speaker 1: 0:48

Today, I'm going to choose to use this episode to talk to you about how to enhance or improve your current relationship or to manifest one. If you, what you're really wanting is your perfect soulmate, then let's go, shall we All right? First things first. I want you to know that there is an area of your home that is directly related to your intimate relationships marriage area of your life. I know sounds pretty weird, sounds pretty out there. I don't actually know why it works, but I also equally don't really understand how the pyramids were built, how the ball court in Chichen Itza works. I don't actually know. There's a lot of things we do not know out there. But all I know is just like manifestation, feng shui works as an act to manifest what you want. Also, power of the intention, power of intention, psychology of your space. We're going to work on all of it, all right.

Speaker 1: 1:56

So the area directly related to your intimate relationships marriage is back right corner. Now how do we find that? In your home, you want to stand in your architectural front door, so this is the one that the architect wanted you to use as your front door. It doesn't really matter if you end up going through. You use the back door all the time, or you go through the garage door into a mudroom, it doesn't matter. I want you to stand in the architectural front door. Stand in that door looking into your home. The back right corner of your main floor is your intimate relationships, marriage guap. Now, upper floors, lower floors they have a little bit of a different orientation, possibly depending on your stairs, but we're not going to talk about that. We're just going to talk about the main floor for right now, back right corner from your architectural front door.

Speaker 1: 3:00

So when you go there, there are things that you can put in that space that are going to enhance your relationship or manifest one. So the first things first, you want to clear the clutter. Clutterer is like stuck energy, and what you don't want is stuck energy in a relationship. So you want to remove all items that don't feel good to you. They're broken, you don't use them, you don't love them. Ideally, you just want to have space for new energy to come in.

Speaker 1: 3:37

Now the next thing in this area, you want to have pairs of items. So you want to imagine that this area represents you and your spouse, or your partner or your potential partner. So what you don't want is items that would be in singles, because that would represent you being alone, right? You also don't want to have things in threes. I mean, unless you wanted a third thing or person in your relationship. But I'm going to guess that, if you're listening to me, you probably are only wanting two you and your partner. So ideally, you want to have two things in the space pairs in this space.

Speaker 1: 4:23

Now my kitchen happens to land in my intimate relationships, and so in my kitchen I had things like I had two plaques. They were of butterflies actually. So I had these two plaques that were hanging together, that were hanging together, and then I also had two teapots and I placed those two teapots together in my kitchen just to represent my husband and I. So you can be as unique as you possibly want, but ideally you want things in pairs, not singles and not threes, and that's just to symbolize a partnership. Whether it's two candles or two nightstands or two crystals, it doesn't matter what it is, just have them in pairs. So number three is you want to activate with the right colors. If you can add red or pink here, these are ideal colors for love and passion and you don't have to paint your walls pink, just use accent colors, use pillows, blankets, artwork, candles, any types of things like that, just adding in a little bit of pink or red. You know why it's there. It will speak to your subconscious mind.

Speaker 1: 5:38

Number four is you want to add romantic symbols. So a framed photo, possibly of you and your partner when you're happiest Don't put a framed photo of you and your partner at a funeral, for example Just like one of your happiest moments and you want to be able to look at that picture and just really feel that love and you want to place that in your relationship squad. If you don't have a picture like that or you're wanting to bring a romantic partner into your life, then I would suggest two items together that might be something like two rose crystals or two candles. That would be wonderful. Also, you could have just even a random picture or sculpture, maybe of two people that are in love. That would be amazing. You just don't want anything that would be sad or depressing.

Speaker 1: 6:41

I once did a feng shui consultation for a woman and in her intimate relationships marriage guo she had. It was a plaque in that area and it was of that, saying that said, life is not about waiting for the storm to pass, but it's about dancing in the rain. I asked her what it represented to her. What she said was that she had received it from a friend because she and her husband had been going through a really tough time. But she had this symbol of this difficult time and having to dance in the rain in her intimate relationships marriage area. So what I suggested is she could place that in another area, possibly in her wisdom self-knowledge area. That would be a great place to be. Or she could choose to keep it for a while and then release it and place it somewhere else once it served its purpose. But you're getting the drift here. What I'm saying is in intimate relationships marriage area of your home, you want to design it with what you want, not with what you don't want.

Speaker 1: 7:55

Now the fifth one is you want to remove relationship blockers, so you don't want Ex-partner energy here. Actually, in your entire home you don't want ex-partner energy, but particularly intimate relationships marriage area. So if you have old letters, gifts, keepsakes, pictures, like anything that is related to old emotional ties to that person, you want to remove those. Keep them out of your bedroom, but also out of the intimate relationships marriage guap.

Speaker 1: 8:30

Next one is I want you to use affirmations and intention. This is one of my favorite things, because no one knows. You've done it. It's not overt, but it is crazy powerful. Write on a piece of paper an affirmation might be something like my relationship is full of love, passion and deep connection. And you can hide this piece of paper anywhere. You can put it in a drawer, you can put it under your mattress, you can put it inside a cupboard, taped up underneath the bottom of a table, underneath an area rug. It is such a fun thing to do and I would do it.

Speaker 1: 9:11

Set this intention when you've cleaned, decorated or moved objects in the area. It's like adding that extra energy to your space, that extra energy, that extra information to the universe that you are ready to step into a deeper connection with someone. You also want to freshen up the energy. So open the windows regularly, open up the door, let that fresh air circulate and then release the old energy. You can also burn rose or jasmine incense, a really soft, sensual essential oil you can diffuse, like Ylang Ylang is great. Or you can even just use candles. Light the candles and just like, sit in that nice romantic, warm glow. And finally, you can try this feng shui love ritual. So light one pink candle in your relationship, hold a piece of rose quartz and visualize the relationship that you want. Say an affirmation out loud that really resonates with you and then let the candle burn for at least an hour before snuffing it out. These feng shui tweaks will help shift the energy and you will know that you've placed this intention into your space and that is the real power. You will open yourself up to a deeper relationship with the person that you are in partnership with or you will manifest your soulmate.

Speaker 1: 10:42

Next week we're going to talk about what to do in your bedroom to enhance your relationship or attract a new one. See you then. Thank you so much for listening. I hope you've had some laughs, maybe some ideas, and that you've been inspired to take some type of action toward the life you've always dreamed of. If you feel so called, I would love it if you would share with your besties and leave a review down below. I look forward to bringing you along on this journey and I will see you in the next episode.